On Smut
Important OOC Note
When it comes to sexual content and smut, I like to invoke the following four rules:
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All parties must be at least 20 years old physically and mentally. Self-explanatory: Underage characters can't give legal consent. (And if you feel the need to protest this, it'd be best if we didn't RP together.
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All reasonable dangers and precautions are known (an admittedly relative stance depending on the parties). I'm fine with room-trashing rough passion, fight scenes and characters getting hurt or injured. But if your character can't come unless someone's maimed, crying or bleeding out, I'm not the partner for you.
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No one's judgment is significantly impaired. If someone has strongly-impaired awareness or self-agency so they can’t reasonably consent (they're black-out drunk, heavily sedated, under powerful hypnosis/mind control, deep psychological issues, etc.), it ain’t happening.
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Choices are free and informed; all involved parties are fully aware of what's happening and want to do this. Rape, non-con and dub-con are all instant dealbreakers.
My full kink list (obviously NSFW) can be viewed by clicking anywhere in this sentence.
Some general likes and dislikes are listed below.
A Few Personal Faves (❤)
Strong and confident badass bitches
Humor/comedy (a must to some degree)
Dressy ladies
Nylons/stockings
Footplay (this is not about degradation or debasement)
Light bondage
Unambiguously good/noble types (think this Batman and this Superman)
Witty banter
Foreplay (groping, kissing, oral sex, touching/massaging, grinding, etc.)
Lighthearted fun sex and warm intimate sensuality
Let's Chat About These First (◆)
Bloodplay
Waxplay
Coercion/blackmail
Drug use
Pure, no-nonsense realism
Real-life/celeb faceclaims (most fandoms I'm interested in being animated or 2D)
I'm Game For These (✔)
Badass Damsel/Damsel Out of Distress
Witty banter
Sensual dirty talk
Older/curvy women
Rough yet mutually consensual passion
Tickling
Electric toys
Costumes/role play
No-Goes and Dealbreakers (✘)
Characters under 18 years old
Rape/non-con
Eroticized discrimination, abuse, brutality and/or degradation
General grossness (poor personal hygiene, anything belonging in a toilet or coming out of an ass)
Sexually lazy/selfish characters (comic NSFW)
Gratuitous darkness for its own sake
Set-in-stone "sub/dom" dynamics
Toxic relationships (think 50 Shades of Gray)
Edgemasters ("DARKNESS! NO PARENTS!")
Characters devoid of self-agency
Characters that equate "anti-hero" with "emotionally-retarded sociopathic asshole"