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On Smut

Important OOC Note

When it comes to sexual content and smut, I like to invoke the following four rules:

  • All parties must be at least 20 years old physically and mentally. Self-explanatory: Underage characters can't give legal consent. (And if you feel the need to protest this, it'd be best if we didn't RP together.

  • All reasonable dangers and precautions are known (an admittedly relative stance depending on the parties). I'm fine with room-trashing rough passion, fight scenes and characters getting hurt or injured. But if your character can't come unless someone's maimed, crying or bleeding out, I'm not the partner for you.

  • No one's judgment is significantly impaired. If someone has strongly-impaired awareness or self-agency so they can’t reasonably consent (they're black-out drunk, heavily sedated, under powerful hypnosis/mind control, deep psychological issues, etc.), it ain’t happening.

  • Choices are free and informed; all involved parties are fully aware of what's happening and want to do this. Rape, non-con and dub-con are all instant dealbreakers.

 

My full kink list (obviously NSFW) can be viewed by clicking anywhere in this sentence.

Some general likes and dislikes are listed below.

A Few Personal Faves (❤)

 

Strong and confident badass bitches

Silk Hiding Steel

Humor/comedy (a must to some degree)

Dressy ladies

Nylons/stockings

Footplay (this is not about degradation or debasement)

Light bondage

Unambiguously good/noble types (think this Batman and this Superman)

Witty banter

Foreplay (groping, kissing, oral sex, touching/massaging, grinding, etc.)

Power Perversion Potential

Lighthearted fun sex and warm intimate sensuality

Let's Chat About These First (◆)

 

Bloodplay

Waxplay

Coercion/blackmail

Drug use

Pure, no-nonsense realism

Real-life/celeb faceclaims (most fandoms I'm interested in being animated or 2D)

I'm Game For These (✔)

 

Badass Damsel/Damsel Out of Distress

Witty banter

Sensual dirty talk

Older/curvy women

Rough yet mutually consensual passion

Tickling

Electric toys

Costumes/role play

 

No-Goes and Dealbreakers (✘)

 

Characters under 18 years old

Rape/non-con

Eroticized discrimination, abuse, brutality and/or degradation

General grossness (poor personal hygiene, anything belonging in a toilet or coming out of an ass)

Sexually lazy/selfish characters (comic NSFW)

Gratuitous darkness for its own sake

Set-in-stone "sub/dom" dynamics

Toxic relationships (think 50 Shades of Gray)

Edgemasters ("DARKNESS! NO PARENTS!")

Characters devoid of self-agency

Characters that equate "anti-hero" with "emotionally-retarded sociopathic asshole"

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